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prisonwife
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Joined: 06 May 2008
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 5:00 pm    Post subject: Brother inside for murder Reply with quote

My brother is inside for murder and I feel as though people put the blame on me.  The person who died, their family and friends seem to think that if one person in the family is a murderer then the whole family is.  I don't condone murder, its plane wrong but I also love my brother and will support him.
If I tell someone my brother is inside for murder they seem to think I'm a bad person or a criminal.  I don't even get parking fines!
Does anyone else feel like this?

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sarahm



Joined: 07 May 2008
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Location: Bristol

PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 3:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel the same... When I tell people my boyfriend is in prison they seem to turn their nose up and get all snotty.  Think if shes with a criminal she must be one.  Well im not and I am not ashamed of my man.  He made a mistake but he is putting it right.  Everyone deserves a second chance

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ebonygirl



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Location: London

PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dont let anyone make you feel bad!!!
You know your a good person.  People
should learn not to judge.
Ill be damned if im gonna stand there and
let someone judge me for my mans crimes.
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prisonwife
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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks girls...  I try not to let it get to me, I am a rather strong person.
But some people can be cruel and I'm not really a fighter.
I guess it comes down to grin and bare!!
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ebonygirl



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Chin up!!!!!
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sarahm



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PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2008 10:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some people try and make others feel bad
cos they are unhappy with who they are.

Pay them no attention.
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